The Brutal Side Of Abused Sisterships

How has your past observation or experience with other women held you back in your career or your business? 

Maybe that hurt came from your mother, your own family, close friends, co-workers, Bff’s, etc… I want to help you release some of the hurt starting today. 

I have spoken to hundreds of thousands of women since I’ve been in business. Whether it was coaching, Masterminds, keynotes, workshops, networking, beauty salon talk, etc…I often hear some women mention that they want the support from other women, they want to share their goals and dreams, they want to celebrate others and be celebrated themselves but the trust in other women is at a minimum. 

I believe true release doesn’t come from keeping your guards up it comes from a deep level of understanding. 

When I look at the biggest challenges of my life they almost all center around the brutal side of abused sisterships. Growing up I recall being judged, smiled and stabbed in the back, teased, betrayed, and so much more by women whom I trusted and cared for. (Not to mention some women I didn’t even know that wanted to make it their assignment to smear my name!)

And I can’t say I was all “sugar and spice and everything nice” either, I know there are women who feel that they’ve been deeply hurt by me. 
Here’s my truth: having true sisterships especially if you are going through any type of transition makes the challenges of life a bit smoother.

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MFCEO PODCAST: How To Attract What You Desire With The Vision…

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This episode I interview Lucinda Cross, she is a critically acclaimed author, World-renowned keynote speaker, educator, and owner of a small business consulting firm, Activate Worldwide LLC. Lucinda has made her first million in selling Vision Board kits after her appearance on Queen Boss on BET and contract with Walmart. She is the Founder of Activate Your Life Inc. and Recipient of the Life Time Achievement Award from former President Barack Obama. Lucinda teaches us all about her journey to success and she also teaches us all about vision boards. Want to check out our website? -> http://www.themfceoprocess.com

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Secure The Bag Summer Training!

REPLAY: Secure The Bag Summer Series 1

Secure The Bag Summer Series

# **REPLAY: Secure The Bag Summer Series **1. Listen while you are least distracted1. Grab your pen and paper. 1. Take notes1. Review this video in 15 to 20min increments1. Pick one thing you will Activate on this week1. Post any questions you have belowMark your calendars for the next session on Wednesday, July 15, 2020.

Posted by Lucinda Cross-Otiti on Thursday, July 9, 2020
  1. Listen while you are least distracted
  2. Grab your pen and paper.
  3. Take notes
  4. Review this video in 15 to 20min increments
  5. Pick one thing you will Activate on this week
  6. Post any questions you have below

Mark your calendars for the next session on Wednesday, July 15, 2020.

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Build Your Mentorship Dream Team

Eric Thomas

Now is the time to write and approach your dream list of mentors.

There are mentors, then there are “dream list” mentors. Dream list mentors are the mentors you’d pick if you could choose any mentors on the planet. Landing these kinds of “dream list” mentors takes audacity and connections. But it’s certainly doable.

==> How Facebook Landed Bill Gates

When Facebook was still in its infancy with just a few million members, Mark Zuckerberg decided he wanted to make it a platform. He wanted developers to be able to build apps on the platform.

He asked one of his mentors if he could put him in touch with others who’ve developed platforms. His mentor said he might be able to put him in touch with some developers who’ve built a platform in the past.

Zuckerberg said: “I was thinking more along the lines of Bill Gates.”

His mentor scoffed at him. Here he was, running a startup social network with far less traffic than MySpace and he wanted Bill Gates to teach him how to build a platform?

Need help with the Asking grab your copy of The Big ASK.

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Would you like to barter with us?


As someone who invests in conferences and networking as well as producing these events, I understand how costly this can get with so many awesome events going on. Even if you get to snag early-bird specials and discount rates the investment can take a huge toll on your finances if not planned out correctly.  One thing I learned to do was to connect with other individuals attending and bunk up or carpool. I learned to grab early flights using flight alerts. Checking nearby Airbnb and also grabbing groupons to cover lunch and dinner was a huge success.  

Well here is a few ways to arrange for FREE tickets to The Big ASK Live.  

1. Are you a podcaster, blogger, social media influencer? If you are covering the conference under press or media you can get a complimentary ticket with the right requirements. 

2. Do you have a camera or Video camera? If you agree to take photos or video snippets of the conference as part of the conference onsite social media squad you can also grab a complimentary ticket. 

3. Lend your hands to some labor. If you can help set up or break down or be a part of the organizing committee you get a complimentary ticket. Or offer any admin support services virtually pre-conference. We can use all the help! 

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My ESSENCE Fest Experience

There is too much to share to type in one post so please be on the lookout for a Follow-Up video.

Let me just share that the ESSENCE Fest experience is all about the side events. Just when you think you are having a blast at the Convention Center and the concerts at The Superdome before you get there you have to decide between a dozen or so dope events that you must narrow down to two or three that you can attend per day.

I was a featured author with a book signing and I sold out.

Side events include celebrity brunches and lunches, meet-ups with decision makers and corporate big wigs, your favorite product Pop up shops and then there’s the all-white parties, all black parties, movie premiers, listening parties, and album releases.

I was able to get in on:

AT&T Brunch with Isaiah Thomas– it was polished. Everyone was dressed to the T. Me and hubby literally just got off the plane and headed over to the brunch not realizing it was fancy schmancy. As we were going back and forth whether we should stay or leave because we were underdressed, cute still but a bit underdressed, here comes a big wig, greeting us, loving on us and welcoming us to an elite table in our un-elite attire. LOL
Here is where Isaiah Thomas was showcasing his new champagne which was really delicious and I had a chance to meet some top executives and media outlets. One connection I made, in particular, had me ready to do a Glory run around the room. (more to come about that)

Strength of A Woman Brunch hosted by Mary J Blige- yoooooooooooo, this event is my personal highlight ever year, thanks to one of my sister friends. Here you are in a room full of A-listers but everyone is super cool and relaxed. The energy in the room is light and the ambiance is flawless. Plus I get a chance to see Mary J Blige up close and personal. Yes, I had to hold back a few yells and OMGs when I saw her but her smile and even acknowledging my Yellow dress was everything.

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How Are You Securing The Bag?

Every business should have an offer sheet. Here is a template I use that has made me lots of $$$. Seriously, what are you waiting for? Create your offer today and don’t go to another event without one.

*If you are offering products and services and you get the opportunity to speak on stages and platforms. Consider creating an offer sheet that you can hand out. This can turn any free engagement into a paid opportunity.

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