The Brutal Side Of Abused Sisterships

How has your past observation or experience with other women held you back in your career or your business? 

Maybe that hurt came from your mother, your own family, close friends, co-workers, Bff’s, etc… I want to help you release some of the hurt starting today. 

I have spoken to hundreds of thousands of women since I’ve been in business. Whether it was coaching, Masterminds, keynotes, workshops, networking, beauty salon talk, etc…I often hear some women mention that they want the support from other women, they want to share their goals and dreams, they want to celebrate others and be celebrated themselves but the trust in other women is at a minimum. 

I believe true release doesn’t come from keeping your guards up it comes from a deep level of understanding. 

When I look at the biggest challenges of my life they almost all center around the brutal side of abused sisterships. Growing up I recall being judged, smiled and stabbed in the back, teased, betrayed, and so much more by women whom I trusted and cared for. (Not to mention some women I didn’t even know that wanted to make it their assignment to smear my name!)

And I can’t say I was all “sugar and spice and everything nice” either, I know there are women who feel that they’ve been deeply hurt by me. 
Here’s my truth: having true sisterships especially if you are going through any type of transition makes the challenges of life a bit smoother.

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Do You Like The Things That Life Is Showing You?

What is your Big ASK? Do You Know?

One of my favorite songs as a child was sung by Diana Ross “Do you know where you’re going to?” 

Do you know where you’re going to?
Do you like the things that life is showing you?
Where are you going to? do you know?
Do you get what you’re hoping for?
When you look behind you there’s no open door
What are you hoping for?
Do you know?
 

Many of you have already invested in getting a copy of The Big ASK so some of this content is going to piggyback many of the principles in the book. (Sidebar: Please take the time to write me a review on Amazon. Reviews on Amazon are like gold nuggets.)  

The one question I get all the time about productivity and The Big ASK is: How do I get clear on my wants, needs, and desires? Having a Big ASK is getting so much emphasis nowadays for two reasons. 

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Do you like the things that life is showing you?

What is your Big ASK? Do You Know?
One of my favorite songs as a child was sung by Diana Ross “Do you know where you’re going to?”
Do you know where you’re going to?
Do you like the things that life is showing you?
Where are you going to? do you know?
Do you get what you’re hoping for?
When you look behind you there’s no open door
What are you hoping for?
Do you know?

Many of you have already invested in getting a copy of The Big ASK
so some of this content is going to piggyback many of the principles in the book.

(Sidebar: Please take the time to write me a review on Amazon. Reviews on Amazon are like gold nuggets.)

The one question I get all the time about productivity and The Big ASK is:

How do I get clear on my wants, needs, and desires?

Having a Big ASK is getting so much emphasis nowadays for two reasons.

One: Many people have serious internal self-defeating thoughts about knowing what they want, feeling comfortable communicating it, and stating it clearly. This is where some businesses fail because they go from not knowing what they want to not knowing what problem to solve for their clients as well.

(my mom used to say, how you do one thing is how you do everything…just think about the patterns we created without even realizing it)

Two: Many of us, I will speak for myself here grew up suppressing my wants, needs, and dreams — even to the extent of feeling guilty about “wanting” something.

(you know the saying from our parents “don’t touch anything, don’t ask for nothing, don’t look at nothing…”)

Most of us learn the power of suppression more than the magic of manifestation in our childhood.

With this in mind, we begin to grow up and feel as if someone will lack because of our wants, desires, and needs…someone else will be deprived because of our clarity.

It is time to free your dreams and visions. It is time for you to take a trip on the wild side. The side that all things are possible. The side that proves that your steps are ordered by God. The side that contradicts your status, class, ethnicity, background, education, and even your own beliefs.

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Product Review: Follicle Enhancer by Edge Naturale™

Self Care during the Pandemic: Salon shut down was a curse and a blessing for me during the pandemic. I honestly think from a hair growth point of view it was the best thing for me. I was lazy with my hair care and relyed only on my beautician for management.

Thanks to COVID (side-eye) I had to return to loving on myself from the inside out.

I start to diligently take time to focus on inner and outer self-care. My self-care regimen included prayer, meditation, cleansing, detoxing, and of course, maintenance of my crown “hair”. I started taking vitamins and supplements, letting my hair breathe and be free.

My mornings looked like:

  • Prayer
  • Meditation
  • Lemon water detox
  • Affirmations
  • Facial
  • Haircare

I was introduced to this amazing product “Follicle Enhancer” by Edge Naturale™. This product seriously took 2 weeks as I was seeing results and new hair growth on my edges. Well this worked and I wanted to share a product that actually yields results. My edges were thin from weaves, wigs, braids, twist, you name it, your girl rocked it. Out of all the fabulousness with these diverse styles, I was putting major damage on my hair.

This is an amazing product for people who want to revive edges fast.

  • Safe Ingredients
  • USA Made and Tested
  • Cruelty Free
  • A ‘One-Product’ System
  • Simple Application
  • Amazing Results!
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MFCEO PODCAST: How To Attract What You Desire With The Vision…

Start the process of becoming the MFCEO of your life.|7/27/2020

This episode I interview Lucinda Cross, she is a critically acclaimed author, World-renowned keynote speaker, educator, and owner of a small business consulting firm, Activate Worldwide LLC. Lucinda has made her first million in selling Vision Board kits after her appearance on Queen Boss on BET and contract with Walmart. She is the Founder of Activate Your Life Inc. and Recipient of the Life Time Achievement Award from former President Barack Obama. Lucinda teaches us all about her journey to success and she also teaches us all about vision boards. Want to check out our website? -> http://www.themfceoprocess.com

 #StoryTelling#VisionBoard#Relentless#Millionaire#LawOfAttraction

#LucindaCross#VisionBoardQueen#MindSet#WinningMindset#BusinessOpportunity#COVID-19#CEO#WinOrDie#MfceoProject#Mental Strength#Business#Lifestyle#Success

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Secure The Bag Summer Training!

REPLAY: Secure The Bag Summer Series 1

Secure The Bag Summer Series

# **REPLAY: Secure The Bag Summer Series **1. Listen while you are least distracted1. Grab your pen and paper. 1. Take notes1. Review this video in 15 to 20min increments1. Pick one thing you will Activate on this week1. Post any questions you have belowMark your calendars for the next session on Wednesday, July 15, 2020.

Posted by Lucinda Cross-Otiti on Thursday, July 9, 2020
  1. Listen while you are least distracted
  2. Grab your pen and paper.
  3. Take notes
  4. Review this video in 15 to 20min increments
  5. Pick one thing you will Activate on this week
  6. Post any questions you have below

Mark your calendars for the next session on Wednesday, July 15, 2020.

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Build Your Mentorship Dream Team

Eric Thomas

Now is the time to write and approach your dream list of mentors.

There are mentors, then there are “dream list” mentors. Dream list mentors are the mentors you’d pick if you could choose any mentors on the planet. Landing these kinds of “dream list” mentors takes audacity and connections. But it’s certainly doable.

==> How Facebook Landed Bill Gates

When Facebook was still in its infancy with just a few million members, Mark Zuckerberg decided he wanted to make it a platform. He wanted developers to be able to build apps on the platform.

He asked one of his mentors if he could put him in touch with others who’ve developed platforms. His mentor said he might be able to put him in touch with some developers who’ve built a platform in the past.

Zuckerberg said: “I was thinking more along the lines of Bill Gates.”

His mentor scoffed at him. Here he was, running a startup social network with far less traffic than MySpace and he wanted Bill Gates to teach him how to build a platform?

Need help with the Asking grab your copy of The Big ASK.

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Would you like to barter with us?


As someone who invests in conferences and networking as well as producing these events, I understand how costly this can get with so many awesome events going on. Even if you get to snag early-bird specials and discount rates the investment can take a huge toll on your finances if not planned out correctly.  One thing I learned to do was to connect with other individuals attending and bunk up or carpool. I learned to grab early flights using flight alerts. Checking nearby Airbnb and also grabbing groupons to cover lunch and dinner was a huge success.  

Well here is a few ways to arrange for FREE tickets to The Big ASK Live.  

1. Are you a podcaster, blogger, social media influencer? If you are covering the conference under press or media you can get a complimentary ticket with the right requirements. 

2. Do you have a camera or Video camera? If you agree to take photos or video snippets of the conference as part of the conference onsite social media squad you can also grab a complimentary ticket. 

3. Lend your hands to some labor. If you can help set up or break down or be a part of the organizing committee you get a complimentary ticket. Or offer any admin support services virtually pre-conference. We can use all the help! 

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